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These days are making history. A girl was killed inside a school and apparently, a phone, some prefects and teachers are to be responsible for that. Some girls and boys who were imagining that they were in love had eaten kaneru to frighten the parents. These incidents may be just news for the majority of the nation. For parents, it may appear as a warning and for the students it sure is a shocking news. Since many have talked of the incidents in the above points of view, why not blog about the way i feel about this whole thing as a past prefect?
I was the deputy school captain of my school for the year 2006/7 . more than 3 years back, my thinking pattern was very very different than the present one. there are plenty of reasons which you 'll understand by the end of the post.
I still have no clear idea what was in that mobile phone to make her suicide. But I'm sure the school has a big share over her death. if the same incident happened in a boys college, he would be punished, may be kneeling in front of the office and that is all. so , what is wrong with all this girls' colleges?
First and foremost, I love my school because it is the place which made me who I am. If you enjoy being friends with me, you have to thank my school too. How ever, that does not mean that I only have to speak of the good side of everything.
Going back to the incident, if I was the Head Prefect of that school,and if I had the power to decide, what I would do is to talk to the child and let her walk off with the phone. no problem to both sides, she will get the phone and I will get her abide by the rules of the school. But, that is not the case, all the senior prefects would have got together and they decide what to do. This "what to do " part is dangerous. Being prefects, they have the power, but using the power in the proper way is not taught to them by the relevant authorities or simply, as any other human being, they need to use power to gain wealth and status.
It is true that I also had to take some actions to some "actions" when I was working as a prefect. but now, they seem stupid. totally stupid. Once I was talking with a younger sister of the school and she was saying that she was afraid of me. I asked her why. she said that I was strict. well, I would have been strict during the school time, but now i am not (although i think so, its up to you to judge). so the reason to think that I'm strict and a monster to be afraid of?
Tearing up a picture of prince william in front of her eyes! I didn't even remember doing it, but it seems it was embedded in her mind. I continued the conversation. Akki I was born in UK and I love that country. Prince william is the royalty of my mother country. It is true that he is a "guy" but still its nothing but a mere liking to collect pictures of the people you love.
I was sad. but was helpless. during the time when I was a prefect, we had to abide by the rules and if went other wise, it means the end.
Thus, boys were out of everything. Being prefect, I had to be of an exemplary moral character and according to the idea of the world in which I was living at that time, being good is all about being good and being away from boys.
If I go for a debate, a quiz or any other inter school competition, talking with boys was looked down upon by me myself. It's not that I hated guys. It was more like a virtual dungeon. I was under the impression that talking with boys and joking was a bad thing and each time I talked with them I was mentally counting the time and make sure I end the discussion before hitting the red line. It was such a difficult thing for me to talk with boys, let alone having a boy friend.
It was the result of both the school and the family. On one hand, I'm grateful for both the parties for keeping me out of the company of boys and on the other hand, I'm so sad that I missed a great company during the school time.
That is all about being a prefect in summary
Since I missed the company of boys during the school time, now I know what I missed during the past. I personally do not like being in love during the school time. How ever, not having the opportunity to be friends with boys is sure a misfortune.
When a girl with lesser understanding about the creatures called boys come into a society, she a sure to be an easy catch. But today hardly any school would admit the fact. For most of the girls' colleges are walling up the avenues for their students to mingle with boys. Its just crazy....
When such students become citizens of this big society, they fall in to the trap easily. Guys would come as lovers, friends, study mates, project team members etc to your life and who knows what their real intention is if you have no understanding of the way the mind of guys behave?
For me, luckily I met this guy who very well understood my situation and helped me to get away with my boy phobia. But, we cannot be sure that each and every girl would have that chance. Although I had no close male friends at that time, I believed in him and it is my luck that he is such a good person to be with. what if he turned out to be a crazy moron. When he was being friendly with me, I thought it was love but he was just being friends. That was just because I didn't know how is it to be friends with a boy.
When he first phoned me, I thought it was a sin to answer.
But today I laugh at the fact.
The reason is that today I have male and female friends alike and I think it is a priviledge.
However, during the school time, it was not. talking with a boy was considered a taboo and I used to look down upon the girls who had male friends. Any girl with a strict family back ground and would think the same. The situation would be dangerous if she was brought up in a girls only school.
Then, let us consider the present situation in sri lanka.
Mobile phones being prohibited
Porn sites blocked
Movies with adult only content censored/prohibited
If i was a prefect, I would say yes to all these.
But as I'm not a school child anymore, these things stand just like bullshit.
Note that this was uttered by a school boy in a conversation he had with me about blocking the porn sites.
Although not 100% correct, he definitely has a point there.
I do not encourage anybody to watch porn, but at least you got to have an idea about sex, no need to explain as I believe that the readership of this blog is matured to understand what that means.
Going back to the words of that teenager,it reflects how young people find a way to quench their thirst of curiosity. If one way is blocked, they will soon find another way.
The issue is the same with all the other taboo topics.
Now you might wonder what the heck me being a prefect has to do with this?
Well, being a prefect, I tried to be a goody goody person. No jokes, no friendly talks with boys and no any other non-sense. I even avoided chatting, emailing and IMing in sinhala thinking that it would destroy the image that the public have of me.
But to day, I'm different, may be different than a traditional girl who would not blog about porn sites being blocked. Coming into the university and of course reading made me completely a different person. The bottom line is that when you hang out with people, you can get to know the society and it is not what the school offers us or at least it is different than what the school promotes. (Now, that statement is personal guys. so, please do not get angry over it.It is how I felt)
This difference between the actual society and what the school wanted us to be makes lot of troubles.
With all those hushed up thoughts and feelings, I came out of the school in 2007. when I was feeling that society was diffrent than the one that we had inside the school it was too late. However, being a prefect, i have got lot of experince on how to deal with people. Being a silent girl those days, i observed the society and of course, made some terrible mistakes too.
But still, being prefect gives you the courage to carry out any task succesfully in life. for me, today I have managed well in the company of males because being a prefect gave provided me the right time to be open. so dear sisters and brothers.think of the chance and act carefully. And parents, im sure if you are with your children and be friends with them, many disasters can be avoided
ඉතින් ඔය දේවල් ගැන හොයන්න පහුගිය දවස් වල පත්තර කියව කියව ඉන්නකොට අහු වුනා තවත් දෙයක්. අර මාලබේ පටන් ගන්නවා කිය කිය හිටපු විශ්ව විද්යාලයේ ඔන්න දැන් පාඨමාලා ආරම්භ කරන්නයි යන්නේ. එකේ නම SAITM (South Asian Institute of Technology and Management )දැකපු ගමන් හිතෙන්නේ සාක් එකෙන් කරන වැඩක් වගේ. එත් පත්තරේ දැන්වීමේ තිබුන විදියට නම් SAITM is the largest and the most modern higher education center established by the private sector.
hi folks, its been a long time since i wrote a post in English. there are many reasons behind it.
Reason number one is the launch of my sinhala blog and secondly, exams, thirdly and the most recent one is the restless of the vacation time. sometimes, i just wonder why peple think vacation is all about being free. no it is not, in my idea, vacation is the time to get busy with all the stuff that you couldn't do during the semester. i had many plans... reading, movies, going to the family doc to have a medical check up, visiting friends and do writing and writing and writing for the blog. but until now, none of the plans have made at least one step forward from being just a vacation dream. today, one of my big dream (visiting one of my bestest buddies in Kurunagala)was shattered just at the last moment due to a call from an uncle coming from no where. This is crazy, just crazy, why do I always have to sacrifice my dreams for the sake of others?
at the moment, i m status less and desperately waiting for a change.
there is no reason for this blog post other than asking all the friends to bear with me for the crazy things i do these days.i was planning to reply all the emails, do @replies for yesterdays cat war soldiers in the morning. BUT, my big plan for tomorrow was ruined and on friday, im busy the whole day because of the college day at TCL. Oh, what if i had the chance to get away from all these duties and responsibilities? or at least, what if the duties and responsibilities of mine were things that i love doing?
these are just questions with no answers.
going to watch a movie now..ah, speaking of movies, recently got a 250GB of films and TV series. but damn there is a prob with my new mother board's USB drivers. when i plug in any USB device except the MP3 player, the whole computer gets stuck..just imagining having a 250GB of lovely things in front of eyes and downloading movies with super speed SLT ADSL. These days may not be the best days of my life. But still got to pass time too.
Hi deep, its me Rajkumar... Actually its not the virus,, it's like an antivirus.. and doesn't let the usb virus to attack the computer... U can use it in more secure way than any other antivirus.. Rajkumar
@Anonymous (Rajkumar), Anything that runs and spreads without your proper permission is potentially a virus.
ඒකට පොඩ්ඩක් තරහ ගිහින් වගේ අපේ ඇනෝට. එයා කියනවා
oh.. sorry for that... but as i told... i had made it for my personal use.... i don't know how it transfered... Neither i have kept it in net.. I m from nepal and i don't know how did it transfer to srilanka... but sory for that...
'This antivirus program is intended to repair your computer from 'any sorts of virus attacks. 'This program is exactly like a normal virus but it repairs things 'rather than destroying them and its specially for LRI School only. 'I am not responsible if it goes to other place. 'If you do not belong to LRI Family then, please ....... 'Author : Rajkumar Ghale (edited of VirusRemoval.vbs) of Sujin 'About me: I got a lots of program. ' If u want them, then u can contact me.
ඕක දැක්ක ගමන්ම මම Rajkumar Ghale ගූග්ල් කලා .එතකොට ලැබුනේ මේ බ්ලොග් එක විතරයි.එකේ research assistant කෙනෙක් විදියට Rajkumar Ghale කියන නම තියෙනවා.LRI School කියලා ගූග්ල් කලාම නේපාලයේ තිබුන පාසැලක වෙබ් අඩවියක් හම්බුනා මතකයි .ඒ දවස් වල නම් නිල වෙබ් අඩවියට යන්න පුලුවන් උනත් දැන් ගූග්ල් දැන් ඒකට යන්න දෙන්නේ නෑ visiting this web site may harm your computer!ලු